Hey guys! How’re doing? Welcome to my Blog. Today I’m going to talk about relationships and dating, which brings us to today’s discussion titled “The Right One”. Of course you might be wondering what’s she up to? What does she know about that? But to be honest, I really love it when people underestimate me. Like she got nothing to offer, she knows nothing, etc. You know why? It’s because even though I’ve got nothing to offer I will be challenged to dig out something interesting and inspiring, that’s the secret in being underestimated! i hope you see the opportunities in being underestimated and stop feeling sad and being hurt about it. The topic today is most essential for the LADIES.
Now back to today’s topic, I would like you to ask yourself “Who is the Right One?” and make sure you answer that correctly before going into any relationship. Have a knowledge of what you want and don’t just walk into a relationship with the aim of just dating, just to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, just to have an intimacy relationship without knowing what you need, forget about wants for now because they’re unlimited. But what about what you actually need from your partner, what you expect of him, what you really want, what about the outcome which is what we call ‘Future’. Isn’t there any planned future together? Then why keeping such relationships? Why not move on and the right one will come when the time is right. Why waste your time being deceived by that uncommitted partner of yours? Why not take a bold step and stop the nonsense which has no hope of regaining its senses?
For the Ladies, I want you to know that some men can be so toxic to your health. They don’t want to love you properly, but don’t want to let go of you either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right, so you give them a chance in hopes that they’ve changed only to realize it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes proclaiming his love for you and you give in again. The cycle continues until you gather up enough strength to say enough is enough and really cut him off from your life.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn’t a proof of love; it’s a knee jerk reaction. A man kissing your ass and making flaccid attempts to be nicer for the next two weeks isn’t a proof that he’s trying. It’s a proof that he knows how to defuse you long enough to hold you back once again. Take away a toy, a boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a man cries. Just because he cries doesn’t mean you give him what he wants and does whatever he asks you to do. Most of the ladies don’t know what it’s like to be loved by the right man. You just know lust, you know joy, you know passion, and you know fear of being abandoned. Stop chasing your idea of what you think love should be, and know what love actually is. Love is when he acts right from the start so that he won’t mess it up; love isn’t promising to act right after he messes up. Love is when a grown man changes on his own in order to have and keep you, because he can’t imagine life without you; love isn’t telling a grown man he needs to change in order to have you and keep you.
Ladies, I want you all out there to know that you need and deserve a man who will be committed to you and love you right at all times, not only when you decide to walk away. He ruins the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and cheating because he is afraid of commitments. Grown men don’t play games, they don’t string you along or entertain any other women. They have eyes only for you, and you alone. You will know when you find a real man and a true gentleman, because there will be no need for guessing, no worries or anxiety, and everything works naturally. He will make sure that you’re safe and loved.
If the man which you are with right now only wants to love you when he is threatened with your absence, he is not the one for you. The one for you will only do what you allow, want, love, etc. so ladies stop believing what he says and pay attention to what he does. If he really, like really, wants you, he would treat you like he doesn’t want to lose you, like he can’t live without you and not the opposite.